The moment when the role is exchanged with parents, I understand that the best love is "feeding"

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As time gradually passed, as we grew up slowly, our parents seemed to suddenly grow old at some moment.

We also started to change the role slowly:

From a protector to a protector;

From a claimor to a payer;

From a crying person to a comforter;

From an obedient to a naging person.

At the moment, we really changed from children to adults who can protect them.

When you start paying the initiative

Moderator Dou Wentao told a story.

It is only time to show off his father in his life to let his father enjoy dozens of pieces of takeaway.

At that time, in order to better take care of his father, he took the old man to live around.

Just a busy job made him have no time to take care of his diet, so he ordered takeaway to eat with his father every day.

When his father looked at a takeaway of dozens of dollars, he proposed to return to his hometown and say that eating a meal in Beijing was enough for a week in his hometown.

Dou Wentao was in a hurry as soon as he heard it, and began to say how he could make money, say how much he hosted a show, how much investment made, and even taking out the deposit to prove that he was really good.

Of course, there are a lot of exaggerated elements here, but the reason why he says is to make his father feel more at ease when spending money.

Growing up slowly, we will find that parents begin to become "stingy."

They were reluctant to eat, and they were reluctant to wear, just to hope to save us a "small vault".

In order to give them a better life, we will begin to change.

When we went out, we started to pay for the initiative;

When buying things, sometimes the price is very expensive, we will deliberately speak cheaply;

Because we always want to give them the best things, just as they have always wanted to give us the best things.

Most of my parents' life is paying for us.

And when we have the ability, we also hope to pour our own efforts to make them take the best care.

At the moment we wanted to pay for them, we grew up.

We began to be responsible for our actions and began to pay for the rest of our parents.

When you start to help your parents

When we were young, we always looked up at our parents, and with the help of our parents, we became better and better.

But suddenly, we found that our parents became more and more disconnected from this era, and they were more accustomed to asking us for help at the moment when they encountered things.

When taking a bus some time ago, I met a 30 -year -old woman and answered the phone.

Hearing from the dialogue, the other side of the phone should be her mother.

It said that I wanted to enter the supermarket, but I couldn't open the health code, and I had been trapped at the door of the supermarket for a long time.

The woman said, "See if you haven't opened the traffic?"

The other said, "What do you think?"

The woman was helpless, but she patiently held her mobile phone and explained while looking.

When we grow up slowly, our parents slowly grow old.

When we encountered a problem, we would ask them for help. When they encountered problems, they started to ask us for help.

At the beginning, we would be so proud; but slowly, we felt a little sad.

We found that it is really difficult for them to be very simple.

Years have always been merciless, and it always pushes us forward.

The most ruthless thing is that not only has white parents' hair, but also makes their learning ability slowly attenuated.

At this time, we should be patient with our parents to help us.

In this way, they can not be eliminated by the times.

When the person who once taught us "1+1" needs us to help, we will feel the meaning of life more, not only inheritance, but also "feed".

When you become a comforter

When I was young, my mother always patted our shoulders and told us that this was not a big deal; Dad always encouraged us, and when he fell, he got up.

But a day suddenly, we suddenly found that the role was exchanged.

They will also blame themselves because of a trivial matter, and we become the comforter, and it doesn't matter to them.

Netizen H once told such a story.

One month, her father's call fee exceeded the standard. Usually, people who were capped at 50 yuan were as high as 370 that month.

After paying the phone bill, my father blamed himself, saying that the money was not good, and it was dedicated to mobile.

The most important thing is that he didn't know how he spent so much call.

When H saw, it turned out that his father had forgotten to open WiFi.

Swipe a small video at home, and it burst the call fee unknowingly.

This has caused his father's blame again, and he has been saying he is old.

H, busy hitting haha, saying that he had made such a mistake, but he was embarrassed to say to the family.

I also teased that I was a little confused, Dad was a big confusion.

Later, H taught his father how to open WIFI and how to change the package.

The old man also slowly looked at it.

As the saying goes, the elderly are old children. The older the older, the more childhood, and even the emotions will fluctuate because of a little thing.

What children have to do are not accusations, not complaints. Instead, we must turn around as a comforter to analyze the reasons and solve the problem for them.

You know, what is most needed in this world is the parents who have been ignored by us for a while.

When you start your parents

When I was young, I always thought my parents were nagging.

Whatever sitting, standing, no matter what you do, it seems to be stared at by both eyes.

But when he was old, he found that he became the nagging person.

Seeing my father drinking, we would say a few words; when we saw my mother's leftovers, I would say two more words.

Netizen Wen Shuiwu said that he is nagging every day.

Let her not play with her mobile phone so long, let her eat eggs every day, and let her pay attention to exercise.

Netizen Susu said that in front of his parents, he also became a person who loves.

It is cold and will remind them to dress more; hot weather will remind them of ventilation.

During the period of severe epidemic, they will remind them to gather less; in daily life, they will remind them to eat more fruits and more vegetables.

Perhaps it is not only them. Every you and me in life seem to be changing slowly.

From the time when he was a child, he became concerned about his parents, and from the beginning, it became gentle and open -minded.

The moment we became nagging, we began to understand our parents.

Once, they also wanted to give us all their life experience, but they became nagging in our ears.

But behind all these puppets are actually the flooding and turbulence of love.

Conclusion

The author of "My Daughter 90", Gina Kaleti, said: "

"The road of life is less than half of the road, and the person who attracts the way is replaced by his parents. They live as the old‘ child ’, and you grow from your children to a brand new‘ parent ’.”

In our lives, it always seems to be the case.

When you are young, you will be stable after maturity;

There are the warmth of the parents when taking care of their parents, and the dedication to the parents.

The moment we exchanged roles with our parents, we seemed to understand the true meaning of life. In fact, it was the flow and look back.

I am loved in my life, and I have love in my life.

About the author: Natto, I traveled around the earth between my fingers.

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