Ye Si ｜ On the first day of school, parents were worse than their children?

Xiao Nian said:

The video of "Mom sent her daughter to tears in tears" made many parents feel the same: this reluctance, everyone knows as parents.

Farewell to parents is the most basic adult ritual of children. Letting go is also a compulsory course for parents. I believe that these unavoidable "bridge sections" will always be the most unforgettable and nourishing moment in our lives.

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On the first day of school, parents cried worse than their children?

Source: Surging News Review | Author: Wu Lichuan

The opening season is also the parting season.

A mother sent her daughter to more than 2,000 kilometers, from Heilongjiang to Zhejiang to school. After settlement, the video of the mother and daughter shed tears and farewell, and watched many people crying.

Some netizens leave a message: This is reluctant, everyone knows as a mother.

In fact, I also understand my father.

At this moment, I was crying because of watching this video, and it was such a emotional father.

Of course, some parents do not think that this kind of farewell is so sad. I hope that the "God Beast" will return to the school to be pure, and there are many people. This mood is also normal, and everyone's experience is different.

But in general, it is normal.

Two years ago, before the child left Nanjing to go to college thousands of miles away, my lover also expressed the verbal expression of "hurry up to school and don't bother me at home".

There are countless hardships in high school. The star Daiyue and the "Stress Mountain" are composed of purgatory -like days, and the parents of the people are also tossed half of their lives. Therefore, I can't wait to "leave" immediately, which is the vomiting of many parents.

However, for a few hours of the high -speed rail, his wife cried all the way home.

When the child's figure disappeared at the entrance of the school, she started tears. "The child is so thin and never leaves home. How can she take care of herself?" I comforted that the child would always grow and believe in the child. In the face of the fact that the family of three suddenly became "two -person world" and lasting years, the language comfort was pale.

We all began to understand that this farewell is different from any "worship" in the past.

In "Soldiers Assault", after Cheng Cai and Xu Sanduo's father sent the army to join the army's son on the platform, Xu Sanguo's father said lonely, "Come back, change one person." Contradicate.

A person who once had you in front of him, suddenly entered another strange life channel.

When I stopped the train, I looked at the train on the opposite side of the platform and trapped in thought. That car lights take away a life that you can't predict and difficult to participate.

Children who have been working hard for many years seem to have been on that train, and since then, I know it.

And the sadness, helplessness, concern, all kinds of feelings of parents can easily calm down?

At that time, my lover and I walked on the crowded university campus, watching the mother and daughter of all kinds of expressions hug, the father and the son waved, and listened to the "take care of myself" in various dialects. My heart was empty. It feels a bit unreal, and a bit of uncomfortable. It even felt that the child was an unexpected "episode" in an upcoming college career in time and space.

I do things for a moment, help my children buy things, clean the dormitory, and install all kinds of small facilities that I can't think of. I don't forget to "inspect" the meals in the cafeteria. She kept urging me to think about what else did not do, and nothing else.

I know she dare not stop herself. As long as it stops, the Warcraft called "Life since Ancient Wounds" will stir off in the heart.

We hope that our children will have a happy and healthy years here, so we also add this tender classmate and even more people related to this "episode".

The first night, we even took our children to participate in the dinner organized by my local comrades. This is a daily ritual before the old father temporarily let go.

This experience also reminds me of the scene where my parents sent me in the past.

In September 1988, when I left the village to study in high school in the county, my father and mother picked me to school with a flat load. Although I live in school, I can go home every week, so there is no tears in this difference.

After graduating from high school, I entered the army as a soldier. I still remember that in the winter of that year, on the streets of Nanjing, my father chased our jeep that drove farther and farther and shouted to me when I chop when I went to the letter and take care of myself. "

The unpredictable fate and the sudden dismissal of the audio and movie brings a huge psychological gap.

Sometimes crying is also a comfort and adjustment. I am convinced that the tearful Heilongjiang mother is the same.

The so -called growth is the result of the common role of hope and pain.

Farewell to parents is the most basic adult ritual of children.

Letting go is also a compulsory course for parents.

In life, these unavoidable "bridge sections" will become the most unforgettable and nourishing moments in their lives.

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