Finding relatives ｜ Henan guy who grew up in the three households, and found his family 28 years later. Unfortunately, his father had died

Jimu Journalist Zhang Wanjun

On the morning of September 16th, in front of a hotel in Jinshui District, Zhengzhou, Li Gang hugged the mother who hadn't seen in 28 years, and was so excited that tears burst out ...

For the volunteers who are looking for relatives at the scene, this may be just their ordinary connection, but for the 31 -year -old Li Gang, this is the most important day in his life.

Two years ago, Li Gang, 2 and a half years old, disappeared while playing near Lizhen, Jinshui District, Zhengzhou, and lost his family. In the following 28 years, he lived in the three families of the three households in Zhengzhou and Kaifeng Lancao.

Fortunately, with the support and help of social caring people and relatives, he eventually walked out of the predicament and successfully found his family, which fulfilled his dream of seeking relatives for 28 years.

After 28 years of loss, the mother and son reunited, but unfortunately his father died 5 years ago

At 9:30 am on September 16th, at the entrance of a hotel in Suo Ling Road, Jinshui District, Zhengzhou City, Li Gang, wearing a red T -shirt, held a bunch of flowers, accompanied by more than a dozen relatives, quickly walked towards 2 Another hotel outside the kilometer.

In this hotel, his biological mother, uncle, aunt and other relatives are waiting for his appearance eagerly.

Mother and child photo (reporter's shooting)

Twenty minutes later, Li Gang and his party came to the door of the hotel. A short -haired woman wearing red clothes greeted and hugged Li Gang. Li Gang knows that this is his biological mother who has been dreaming for many years.

Li Gang kneeled on his knees and hugged his mother tightly.

With the help of relatives and relatives, the mother and child walked into the hotel lobby. Li Gang's aunt and the third grandmother hugged Li Gang. They shed tears and were sad and sad for the 28 -year -old child.

Li Gang's uncle stepped forward and hugged his nephew, his eyes flushed, "Child, you finally go home! Your dad's wish finally realized, but unfortunately he couldn't wait for this day!"

Volunteers present were moving for this scene and sincerely happy for Li Gang.

I have grown up among the three households and grew up

Since the memo, Li Gang lived at the old man named Jia in Zhengzhou. His name was Jia Mingming at the time. His name was "grandpa" and "grandma". The old man had a son -in -law and told Li Gang that he was his grandson. The young Li Gang had no doubt about the old man's statement.

At the age of five or six, Li Gang heard from his neighbor's mouth that he was a child who was raised by the Jia family, not the grandson of the elderly, but he didn't care about this statement.

Li Gang said that the two old men were good to him and treated him as a grandson. Like other children of the village, he lives a carefree childhood life.

However, after 8 years of living in Jia's family, Li Gang's life suddenly changed. At that time, the two elderly people were getting older, and raising Li Gang gradually felt powerless. They hoped that their son -in -law could take over to raise Li Gang. However, the old man's son and daughter -in -law had different ideas about this and were unwilling to take Li Gang to support. The old man's daughter Jia also opposed the old man to continue raising Li Gang.

Since then, Jia Mou has sent Li Gang to the home of the old man surnamed Song in Shifo Town, Zhengzhou. The grandson of the old man named Song had previously died of accident, and the old man was ready to treat Li Gang as a grandson.

At that time, Li Gang finally understood that he may not be the flesh of the Jia family, otherwise he would not be given to other families.

Although he understood this, the young Li Gang had almost no right to speak on the issue of his destiny. He was eventually sent to the old man named Song. Fortunately, the elderly surnamed Song had a good treatment of Li Gang and raised him as a grandson.

After three years of the old man named Song, the accident came again, and Li Gang was returned to the Jia family by the Song family.

At this time, the Jia family was unwilling to accept Li Gang. After some twists and turns, Li Gang was sent to a family named Chen in Kaifeng Lancao. In the Chen family, Li Gang's name became Chen Mouming again.

When the three households lived in life, Li Gang's studies were greatly affected. In addition, there was no hukou at the time, and he finally dropped out of school only in the third grade of elementary school. He was young and started working in a factory early.

Regarding Li Gang's above statement, Jia Mou, the daughter of the old man named Jia, said that when his mother adopted Li Gang, he wanted to raise it as a grandson, but was rejected by his son, and the two elderly had to raise him himself. After eight years of raising Li Gang, the two olds were unable to continue raising because they were old, and they were unable to raise Li Gang, so they were given to the Song family to raise them. The daughter of the Song family said that her parents said that the neighbors in the village said that they adopted Li Gang from the Jia family. After three years of living in her house, Li Gang was unable to continue raising because of his brother suffering from cancer, so he had to send him back to Jia's family.

With the third household raising family, the family has seized the exchanges, and once desperately lived

From 13 to 31, Li Gang grew up from a teenager in the Chen family. However, on the eve of the Spring Festival in 2022, Li Gang and the Chen family broke the relationship.

Li Gang was unwilling to say about the grievances with the Chen family. A local volunteer who participated in the help of Li Gang said that he had tried to contact Li Gang's sister in the Chen family to understand the reasons, but the other party refused to communicate.

This year, Li Gang spent the Spring Festival in the rental house of Zhengzhou Xinzheng alone. He was deeply desperate.

On February 28, 2022, Li Gang, who felt helpless, thought of his absence of life, and even made a move of self -harm. Fortunately, he was sent to the hospital in time after being discovered by his neighbors. Four years ago, Li Gang tried to find the earliest adoption of his Jia family, hoping to inquire about his origin and his biological parents from them. Unfortunately, because of the past 20 years, his memory of the Jia family was very vague and failed to find the Jia family.

In 2019, Li Gang posted a search information on the social platform, hoping to find the Jia family and inquire about his life. Unfortunately, this message is like a stone in the sea, and in the end there is no message.

Video screenshot

The volunteer group relay and finally helped him find the family

On February 28, 2022, the desperate Li Gang published his experience and family -looking thoughts to social platforms, and attracted the attention of many relatives and enthusiastic volunteers.

The netizen "Sichuan Wave" is a volunteer in Zhengzhou. He noticed the video released by Li Gang. The despair and grief that Li Gang showed in the video made him sympathize with him.

The next day, "Sichuan Wave" made a special trip to drive from Zhengzhou City to Xinzheng, and found Li Gang. After verifying the situation in Li Gang's video, he accompanied him to the hospital for further treatment and comforted him spiritually, providing him with some help.

Many netizens cheered for him, and some netizens donated money to him. Netizens encouraged him to live well and slowly look for his biological parents. Gradually, Li Gang came out of despair.

"I have experienced the darkest day of life, but with the help of caring people, I have come out, and now I am full of sunshine ... I have been looking for you, I wonder if you are also looking for me?" Li Gang was in a one In the videos of relatives, they said to parents who never met.

Since then, Li Gang compared DNA with his relatives many times, but unfortunately failed to compare success.

Netizens such as enthusiastic volunteers "Swallow (Reunion)", who are far away from Guangzhou, also noticed the situation of Li Gang. She and netizens such as "Sichuan flow" formed a small team to decide to help Li Gang look for his family.

In April 2022, according to the fuzzy information of the Jia family and Song family provided by Li Gang, after many field visits, the location of the Song family was finally determined. "Sichuan flow" took Li Gang to find the old man and the middleman in the Song family, and learned that they adopted Li Gang's passage from the Jia family and the information of the Jia family.

On May 26, "Sichuan Flowing" took Li Gang to find the old man and his daughter Jiamou. When they asked Li Gang's life, the old man of the Jia family only said that Li Gang, who was picked up on a local bridge, was unclear. Both Li Gang and "Chuanliu" in the old man felt credible, but they did not have a better way.

Seeing the way to find a family -to -family road, in May 2022, "Swallow (Reunion)" suggested that Li Gang had an analysis of his ancestral home. She contacted Jiangsu's relatives and volunteers, Savage, to help the operation, and Li Gang then provided her blood sample to Swiller.

Twenty days later, the results of Li Gang's ancestral home analysis showed that he was suspected of being a person in Li Town, Jinshui District, Zhengzhou. After learning about this, swallows (reunion) went to the local area through friends in Zhengzhou, and determined the most likely family in the local five households.

On August 24, "Swallow (Reunion)" rushed from Guangzhou to Zhengzhou to find the most likely family of this household. After she explained the situation with Li Gang, the other party thought that Li Gang might be a child who had lost his family 28 years ago, so he immediately asked the suspected Li Gang to compare with DNA with Li Gang.

After providing blood samples to the local police, on September 7, DNA compared the results, and Li Gang was indeed a child of this family.

"Swallow (reunion)" and "Sichuan flow endlessly" said that although they have invested a lot of time and energy in this matter, they can help Li Gang to find his family and make them please.

Disappeared when I went out at the age of 2 and half, and the family had been looking for many years.

On September 16, Jimu Journalists learned about Li Gang's disappearance from Li Gang's uncle, mother and other family members.

It turned out that in October 1991, Li Gang was born in a peasant family in Li Village, Miaozhen Temple, Miaozhen, Jinshui District, Zhengzhou, and his parents were authentic farmers.

One day around April 1994, Li Gang's mother went out to work, and Li Gang followed his grandfather at home. When his mother went home to work, she found that Li Gang was not at home, and asked his father -in -law to know that he went out to play and played. They immediately started looking near home, but did not find Li Gang's trace.

Subsequently, the family expanded the scope of search and looked around around the village, but never found Li Gang's whereabouts.

In the past few years, Li Gang's father and uncle have not given up searching. Their search scope is getting bigger and bigger, and there are more and more places to inquire about it, but unfortunately there has been no news of Li Gang.

Because of Li Gang's disappearance, the relationship between Li Gang's father and mother was affected. Although they later raised a daughter, their marriage ended in divorce.

Five years ago, Li Gang's father died of illness. Before his death, he told his brother that he hoped his brother would help him find his son. Li Gang's mother said that since her son disappears, she is sad and has been concerned about him. At the end of August this year, she learned that she might have the whereabouts of her son, and she was particularly excited and looking forward to it. In the future, she would accompany her son.

On the morning of September 17, Li Gang, accompanied by his uncle and other relatives, went to his father's cemetery to worship."I have a home, and I am no longer a unique child. This feeling is really good! Thank you all the help of all parents and lovers for me, and I hope that all parents of the sons and babies will realize the wish of finding their loved ones at an early date.. "Li Gang said that he would live well in the future, live a good life, and take care of his mother.

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