Real love is not heartbeat, but the heart of the heart

When I was studying, I was obsessed with a love poem in Tagore's "Bird Collection".

There are three thousand Ukiyoshi, I love three.

Sun, Moon and Qing.

The sun is the dynasty, the moon is the twilight, and the Qing Dynasty is the twilight.

But I didn't expect that a boy later confess to me with this love poem.

This is really a romantic thing.

Nowadays, many years have passed, and "Qing's Twilight" has been interpreted.

I prefer mature and peaceful marriage than sweet love when I was young.

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San Mao said: "Love, if you don't implement dresses, eating, counting money, sleeping, it is not easy to last forever."

Indeed, the vigorous love will finally be attributed to the bit of three meals a day.

We should not be obsessed with the blushing heartbeat when we love, but to feel the long flow of water in the days after day.

You go out again when you wear it, remember to take it!

I will take you to work, do you come back for dinner?

What do you want to eat at night? I cook at home.

Help me get bottle ice water, help me install bowl soup ...

Although our daily life is so boring, we are all used to each other.

And occasionally a little contradictory, but we know that three days later must be as good as the beginning.

I understand his desire to speak, he understands my laughter.

We can not speak, but as long as I want to eat barbecue, there must be my favorite pork belly, crispy bone, eggplant, oysters.

And I don't just know that he drinks blue -ribbone beer and likes to match the spicy spicy wine.

The boy who wrote a good -looking poem with a pen in that year, the love that we was so excited has become a unhappy life.

If love will grow slowly like humans, then our love must grow up.

I am very fortunate that I did not fall into a strange circle of emotions and uneasy emotions.

If someone asks me now, what is the best state of love?

I would say it was a peace of mind, because I knew it clearly that even if I had a serious illness, he would not walk away.

How can it be considered peace of mind?

Yang Yan once wrote: I do n’t have to lingering every day, keep in touch at any time, I know you wo n’t go, you know I wo n’t change, remember each other, be busy each other, some people share when I am happy, someone is sad when I am sad. It is clear that there is no need to prepare when getting along, and there is no scruples when chatting.

I think this is the external manifestation of the heart.

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Many people say that after a long time of love, love has become the most inconspicuous thing. As soon as the enthusiasm fades, the two are only the boring daily life of the left hand touching the right hand.

I want to say that if you use "freshness" to describe love, then love will definitely pass the "preservation period", and the final face is completely recognized.

Few parts of love are windy and snowy moon, most of them are chai oil and salt, and the latter is the ultimate truth.

I have read Qian Zhongshu's sentence:

"Take a bath, look at a flower, and eat a meal. If you feel happy, not all because the bath is clean, the flowers bloom well, or the dishes will taste it, mainly because you have no hindrance to your heart."

Without hindrance, heart security is a happy emotion.

In the long love, the heartbeat may not be the answer.

The post -90s writer Rui Xi tells the story of himself and her boyfriend.

When I first saw him, I would make makeup and choose clothes two hours in advance. Now, I don't care about it with the oil head and plain face;

When they were together, they met during the day, and they had to talk about WeChat until they went home at night. Now they sleep on a bed, only playing their mobile phones, trapped their heads and fell asleep.

Later, because the epidemic could only work with her boyfriend at home, and the long -term dialogue between the two let her start doubting the relationship between them.

But one day she suddenly discovered that she had a pair of cartoon slippers on her boyfriend's feet; she also worn with a striped pajamas wearing her boyfriend, and she also worn it on her body; her boyfriend's water cup and peach, she had the same one.

She realized that unknowingly, she and her boyfriend had long been used to this kind of lifestyle lifestyle.

She couldn't help but sigh, she didn't say love, not love, because she found a more secure way to get along with.

There is a saying, "If you are soothed, your heart is not as good as your heart;

A heart landed, so that the small self -found place can be found in this huge world.

There are tens of millions of expressions in the world, but all the feelings that start with heart will eventually return to the rest of the heart.

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Among most celebrity couples, Huang Lei and Sun Li's love is enviable. It is said that as long as they see the eyes they look at each other, single dogs will suffer 10,000 points of injury crit.

Huang Lei has been cooking, Sun Li has seen it for more than 20 years, but He Yan said, "She looks full of appreciation."

Huang Lei and Sun Li have been together for 27 years, still making people see love.

Huang Lei wrote when the two met each other for 20 years:

In 20 years, some of our photos have been yellowed, and memory has begun to hide with us.

There are fewer and fewer gifts from each other, but we have pulled some early white hair for each other, and we will gradually become the other party's gift. Essence

We have been together for twenty years together, and we have passed the ordinary and crushed, and there is no ups and downs to make up a complete story. If it is a play, it should not be wonderful. After 20 years we have been salty and weak, I learned that she was not disappointed. I looked at my daughters and home at work. it is good.

Who said that love must not be hurt or loved in the TV series? Xin An is the essence of love.

Good love should be a peaceful and calm thing.

Cake quietly, patiently pack the children, naturally clean up the chopsticks ...

The People's Daily said: "True love is not heartbeat, but the heart is determined. Men's heart is easy for women, but the heart is not easy."

The meaning of the heart is: he met you, and never thought about being good with others. Even if there were people who were better than you, he could not see it, and just wanted to grow old with you.

In this life, we will meet many people with heartbeats. Many times, we will mistakenly think that that is, that is, that is, love, but in fact, it may be just a moment of good feelings of first seeing Chahuan.

After all, it takes a few days to evaluate a love, just like eating a fast food, it is cope, not life.

After walking in love, entering the marriage, and living in a few decades and twenty years, if you go back to pull back, you will understand that the end of love must be at ease.

Author: Qin Qingqing Qingqing, a member of the readers. Qinqi poetry and paintings are all like, and Chai Mi oil and salt are also happy.

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