Before getting married, pay attention to these three details of the other family's family.

Immediately, it was the annual National Day, and it was also the annual wedding.

Whenever at this time, many couples will see their parents, and many affectionate partners enter the marriage hall.

But raising a hundred years old, ninety -nine.

Is it reliable for children? The other family's family and discomfort? Will children live happily after marriage? They will become a problem that plagues parents.

Then, in order to find the right half, before the children get married, we must pay attention to the three details of the other party's house.

Everyone says that the husband's attitude towards his wife determines the temperature of a home.

Feel the same.

Thinking of the class flowers in the class, when studying, because she was beautiful and learned, she was loved by teachers and classmates in the class, and there were a lot of boys who chased her around.

As soon as she graduated, when everyone began to work for money, she chose to get a family first, married early, and lived a day of soup for her husband.

We don't know how much they live in the past few years after marriage.

Just at a classmate party after four years of graduation, she was not as good as before.

The skin is relaxed, the hair is a bit dry, and more importantly, the mental state is sluggish, and I rarely speak in the corner.

As soon as I asked, in the past few years, her husband was fighting high in the past, and she would inevitably be left out at home alone.

Sometimes her husband went out for a business trip. As soon as she left, she was ten days and a half months, leaving her alone alone.

Coupled with the economic pressure in recent years, she was used to spending money from big and big, and the differences with her husband have become increasingly bigger. , Forced to become today's yellow muscles.

She thought it was the husband after marriage, but she could see the way of getting along with her father -in -law and father -in -law. Only then did she know that the big masculinity that the husband showed in front of herself was completely from his father.

Her mother -in -law, in this life, served her father -in -law.

Today, she served her husband in front of the horse and laughed.

Before the marriage, she completely ignored that the way of getting along with the older generation of marriage often repeatedly continued in the next generation of marriage life.

Although she regrets it now, she can only endure again for the newborn child.

Everyone said that marrying a wife must marry virtuous.

However, few people mentioned that behind each virtuous wife, there must be a husband who knows cold and hot and respects his wife.

She was willing to support her when her trough.

She was willing to encourage her when she was disconnected from society.

It is the consideration and respect of each other.

In this way, it can create a family that is not full, but at least harmonious.

Therefore, the children are looking for a object, and they must look at the details of the other husband and wife. Don't underestimate the details of a husband in a family.

Such a family affects not only the relationship between the couple's relationship, but also the outlook on marriage and family outlook on future generations.

The happiness of a family depends on her husband's attitude towards his wife.

A few days ago, my cousin broke up with his girlfriend for three years.

The reason is that the woman feels that he does not have much opinion, and everything is focused on the perspective of his parents.

Worried that you would be wronged in the future, so he divided it decisively.

My cousin has been a baby at home since I was a child.

Because the grandparents value the boy very much, as soon as he was born, his family opened a lot of things for him.

What kind of clothes to eat and eat today, and to make friends and majors in the small, have planned for him.

In the past three years with his girlfriend, he has to report to his mother in big things. Wherever he went to play today, how much money he spent, what his girlfriend said, what clothes he wore, would report to his family.

Although the woman tolerated him, she couldn't stand the attitude of almost everything by his mother.

Seeing parents last weekend, in order to declare sovereignty, his mother knew that the girl was allergic to eggs, and she wrapped a pot of dumplings with leeks and egg fillings, and told the girl that she would not be polite.

After the girl swallowed two dumplings with tears, she broke up with my cousin when she went out.

Because she looked at her parents' attitude towards my cousin, she could roughly imagine her post -marriage life.

Over the years, we have seen too many parents control their children too much, which eventually leads to the breakdown of the small family.

Most of them know that in the process of children's growth, parents' timely extraction will give their children greater freedom and make children more responsible.

After watching a video, the Mid -Autumn Festival, the girl promised her boyfriend to go home for dinner in Mid -Autumn Festival.

I accidentally discovered that her boyfriend and mother were discussing the menu.

Take a look, the menu sent by my mother is dense, and the chicken, duck, and fish hairy crabs are wished to arrange the best.

What is even more moving is that she did not make the final discussions, but to discuss with the children with the children's recipes with patience.

Not only gives the children face, but also respects the girl's living habits.

Respect each other and understand each other. How can such families be uncomfortable?

People say that all the relationships in this world are to gather together, but parents and children are to separate.

In fact, the parents and children were just watching the child's back and gradually, but they learned to let go a little, and then watch the child traveling.

Only when you learn to let go, can you know how to cultivate your children.

Only by respecting their children can they know that they respect their children.

Therefore, before getting married, please see how the other parents treat their children. Only when they look at children as independent people can you be able to harvest a compassion, responsible and responsible partner.

After reading the details of his family, what you have to see is the details of his family treating outsiders.

Knowing the blogger tells a story.

His friend Afu, and his girlfriend had come to the marriage and marriage, but one week before the two decided to receive the certificate, the two suddenly broke up without warning.

When I was drinking afterwards, I knew that it was no warning. In fact, Afu had a different view of this relationship as early as half a year ago.

He acknowledged that his girlfriend was very good to himself. He usually worked as early as get off work, and he would take the initiative to cook, take the initiative to do housework, and go to the girl's house a few times. The family members are very polite to him.

Until one time, they went out to travel.

At that time, it was in the summer, and the weather was a bit hot. They didn't find it for a long time after eating the ice cream for a long time.

The girlfriend was thrown on the ground in anger, attracting the dissatisfaction of the sanitation aunt.

Unexpectedly, the girlfriend suddenly shouted at the sanitation aunt at this time, saying that she was doing this job.

In addition, the girl's family ate together not long ago.

The waiter accidentally went to the dish, and the mother -in -law counted the waiter. While complaining about her stupid, she also asked her to give the entire table for exemption.

Afu looked at the reaction of his girlfriend and his family, and it was a bit wrong for a while.

He couldn't believe that a person who would talk to the sanitation aunt and scream to the service staff. In the future, he really came up with his temper. How would he treat himself and what would he treat his family?

Seeing the temper of the other family's family was exposed in small details, Afu began to re -examine the necessity of this marriage.

In his opinion, how is it important to family, important is whether the other party has a kind and tolerant heart.

He was afraid that the emotions of the other person in front of outsiders were out of control, and when he was divided, he would vent on himself when there was a difference after marriage.

Thinking again and again, after analyzing with his parents' reason, he decided to end the relationship.

Our ancestors have always talked about "cautiousness", and the attitude towards outsiders is likely to be the revealing of his inadvertent nature.

That's why, before getting married, it is necessary to look at the reason why the other family's family details.

From the small details of the outsiders, you can truly see the opponent's line of cultivation and see the other party's ethics.

In order to truly confirm whether the other party can be a person who stays with you.

The old saying is good: Long Shenglong, Feng Shengfeng, and the son of mice will make holes.

You can't ask for a person to completely get away from his native family to survive. Then, before marriage, please remind your children to see the details of the other family's family.

See how his parents are on their own and see how they get along with others.

See if you can tolerate each other's behavioral rules and whether you can accept the way of the other party.

In this way, we can really determine to enter the marriage.

You know, love will be regardless of the body, but you must be cautious when you get married, because there are too many things it is bound, and it needs to be more rational in addition to emotional.

In this way, there will be a marriage that is not regretful.

In this way, in the long years, the flowers and people who value the flowers and flowers are flowing, and the water is long.

Light [watching], I hope that each of us can be right, the right family can set up our own small home with great vigor, and can live a happy life.

Author | Zhou Beautiful, eat a bowl of fireworks on earth, drink a few cups of life and fall.

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