If you want to be happy, then you must pay attention to this reason

Author:Xiao Erni said childcare Time:2022.06.26

This is the 39th/50 days I have continued to write

Recently reading "Navar Book", there is a sentence in it-

Desire is your agreement with yourself. The convention is: I won't get what I want, I will not be happy.

In other words, desire is ourselves and ourselves. Only when we get what we want can we be happy.

This sentence made me feel very excited, and I was greatly inspired by me.

We often live for desire. Only when this desire is reached can we be happy.

for example--

Live in large and comfortable houses;

Drive a beautiful and fast car;

Have a mobile phone with advanced features;

and many more.

This also made us see a reality. There is no upper limit for desire, just temporarily.

Because you have reached your own desire at this stage, you are likely to look at the desire to the next stage.

for example--

When I eat breakfast eggs, when I am ability, I can only put one egg, and I want to put two eggs myself happily.

But when I have the ability to put two eggs, I want to put three eggs to make me happy.

My desire kept constantly, but happiness has not increased.

So if I want to be happy, I can't always be driven by desire, or reduce my desire.

Because happiness is given by yourself, there is not much relationship with the external environment. As long as you want happiness, you can get it.

I rarely realized before that my unhappiness is related to desire.

I just think I have achieved a certain goal, and I feel happy.

And now I think about this problem, I find that many things can make me happy--

My parents are healthy;

My family is harmonious and happy;

Get along well with colleagues;

Go to get off work safely every day;

Children study hard;

······and many more.

Reduce your desire and do what you do now, you will find that you can actually be happy.

So in the future life, if you are not happy, you can ask yourself--

Is it because he has too much desire, which leads to his uncomfortable mood now?

It's another day to make progress with you.

If you feel helpful, just like it!

- END -

Nanjing raised 1439 suite sources for talent -oriented supply

On June 24, the Office of the Leading Group of the Nanjing Talent Housing Work iss...

The media talked about the Tangshan barbecue restaurant to fight: announced that the victim's woman should not be late

Many days have passed by Tangshan, but there is still no further news about the injured girl, and I have not seen any news about the other three girls. What is their situation? This has always been th