Complete filial piety example ｜ Father has become a "vegetative" for five years and has adhered to a miracle

At 7:30 am on August 28th, 42 -year -old Zhuang Lin came to Zhoushan Guanghua Hospital as usual. He and his father lying on the bed wiped his back and cleaned him, and then crushed breakfast into the catheter ... Skilled movements made the professional caregivers in the same ward look at it.

After a set of care, Zhuang Lin took out his mobile phone and played the video recorded in advance for his father. In the video, Zhuang Lin's 9 -year -old son called "Grandpa" intimally, saying that when Grandpa was in good health, he would catch crabs together. The old man nodded gently.

Nodding, shaking his head, and crying is the only way to respond to his father, but for Zhuang Lin, it is the most inspiring victory in the past 5 years.

Zhuang Lin takes care of the father on the bed.

Try in various ways, my father finally opened his eyes

On September 30, 2017, Zhuang Lin's life changed due to one thing. On that day, as a real estate sales manager, he led the team to sell all the houses within 4 hours. But before he had time, Zhuang Lin received a call from his father's sudden cerebral hemorrhage.

His father stayed in the intensive care unit for 43 days. His mother was white -headed overnight. Zhuang Lin reluctantly slept for more than an hour every night. His heart was full of concerns and blame, blaming himself about his parents who were accompanied by his parents. After 43 days, the doctor informed his family that the best result was "Plant".

"Can't give up, my father will get better." This is Zhuang Lin's only belief. In order to take care of his father, Zhuang Lin resigned from hundreds of thousands of jobs last year, and then used more than a month to train himself into a semi -professional caregiver.

Over the years, Zhuang Lin has tried countless ways to wake up his father. Zhuang Lin even left a beard, because his father had abandoned him for being too embarrassed. He believed that one day his father could not help wake up and asked him to shave the beard quickly.

In the past five years, medical expenses have been as high as more than 3 million yuan, and more than 400,000 yuan is needed every year. In order to cure his father, in 2019, Zhuang Lin sold a house in the city center. He said that he was lucky and had the ability to give his father the hope of life.

In 2018, Zhuang Lin changed WeChat's nickname to "Father and Son", and his avatar was his hand with his father tightly.

In 2019, the miracle occurred, and Zhuang Lin's father opened his eyes, and he could accurately draw numbers with his hands. At the end of the year, Zhuang Lin shaved the long beard that had grown to her chest.

Zhuang Lin had a must -have, hoping to wake up his father.

I am most worried about my mother, the most grateful to my wife

His father is no longer a "vegetative", but there is still a long way to go from recovery. In this lasting battle, Zhuang Lin was most worried about his mother, and the most grateful was his wife.

After Zhuang Lin's father was sick, his mother lived in the hospital almost every day. No matter who took care of her wife, she always looked at it. Zhuang Lin persuaded her mother to return home. After many times, she decided to obey her mother's heart. But at the same time, he insisted on taking his mother to go out every week, organized family gatherings to help his mother soothing. In order to take care of the mother's body, Zhuang Lin and his wife cooking almost every day and cooking for her mother.

There is a filial piety behind the filial piety, and his wife supports Zhuang Lin's greatest reliance for many years. In 2017, Zhuang Lin proposed to resign and was opposed by almost everyone, but only received the support of his wife. Zhuang Lin still remembered clearly that his wife told him at the time that money could be made again, but if his father was gone, he could no longer return. In order to make Zhuang Lin have no worries, his wife also took down most of the housework and children's care at the same time.

The mother's expectations and the support of the family gave Zhuang Lin's courage to persist. He said that he has created a miracle and believes that there will be a miracle.

Construction of mutual assistance funds for other people's umbrellas

"This is the recent treatment plan for my father. I hope to help my friends." Recently, Zhuang Lin sent the newly written companionship to the WeChat group. This "Chinese brain stem hematoma patient's family membership group", his father became ill for a long time, Zhuang Lin entered the group for help, and the encouragement of group friends helped him out of the first period to the dark moment.

After raining myself, I always thought about holding an umbrella for others. Today, 5 years later, Zhuang Lin became one of the most active people in the group. He cheered in the group every day, shared the channels for treatment and rehabilitation, and took the initiative to donate and donated to families in difficulties. Driven by him, the number of people in the group has grown from more than 100 people to 400 people now.

In Zhuang Lin's heart, a plan is germinated. He intends to build a mutual aid fund to help families with more difficult brain stem bleeding patients.

Reporter Lin Leyu

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